Using Humor in Interpersonal Conflict Resolution

Steve Carell in The Office

11 a.m., March 23, 2025

Join us this Sunday, either in person or online, as we delve into how to resolve conflict by looking at several short videos and discussing them. Our facilitator has found that humor can diffuse conflict situations, especially in “hot topics” areas such as politics, religion, and other areas of disagreement among friends, co-workers, family, and elsewhere.

Come this Sunday to explore this topic in depth from several possible angles to see if we might better use the positive aspects of humor when discussing challenging subjects with others. Humor can also have adverse effects, which we will look into.

Bio: The facilitator of this Sunday’s meeting is Carl Angotti. He is a semi-retired engineering consultant, and very long time member of our community. He likes to look at complex subjects from a subjective and neutral point of view. He has previously facilitated several of our meetings.

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Conversational Strategies to Avoid Being Fooled

Carolyn Dougherty

11 a.m., March 16, 2025

Join us this Sunday, either in person or online, as we welcome a guest speaker from the Central Valley.

Disinformation is a huge problem in our society. What can we do to help friends who fall for it? We will discuss why using conversational strategies, based on research, may be more effective than debunking alone to help our friends – and ourselves – from being fooled.

Carolyn Dougherty is a retired teacher. She is a volunteer and instructor at Osher Lifelong Learning Institute at University of the Pacific, a member of the planning committee for the SkeptiCal Conference, and the founder and facilitator of Rational Roundtable, a group that promotes science and critical thinking in the Central Valley of California.

03/16/2025 Conversational Strategies to Avoid Being Fooled – Carolyn Dougherty from Humanist Community-SiliconValley on Vimeo.

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On the first and third Sunday of the month, such as March 2nd, you can attend our forum in person with fellow humanists at the Mountain View Senior Center, 266 Escuela Ave., Mountain View, CA 94040. Lunch will be served after the forum. We request a $10 donation.

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Trump and the Future of Ukraine

Former U.S. Amb. to Ukraine Steven Pifer

11 a.m., March 9, 2025

Join us this Sunday, either in person or online, as we watch and discuss a video of Steven Pifer on Ukraine, recorded March 5. “Few periods in the history of U.S. foreign policy have witnessed such a dramatic flip-flop as the past two weeks. Rarely have two weeks brought the Kremlin such good fortune.”

Mr. Pifer was the third United States Ambassador to Ukraine, from 1998 to 2000. He is currently affiliated with the Center on International Security and Cooperation at the Freeman Spogli Institute for International Studies, Stanford University.

You can preview this 26-minute talk at:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFpFhFpTOCY

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Are There Constitutional Constraints Against President Trump’s Actions?

Prof. Leland Chan

11 a.m., March 2, 2025

Join us for a combined meeting of the Bay Area Humanists (BAH) and the Humanist Community in Silicon Valley, either in person or online, as Prof. Leland Chan speaks to us in Mountain View.

The second Trump administration hit the ground running with a flurry of Executive Orders, the scope of which raises questions of legality and constitutionality.

  • Can the presidency unilaterally eviscerate USAID activities if the programs had been created and funded by Congress?
  • Doesn’t that violate the principle of separation of powers?
  • Can President Trump unilaterally eliminate birthright citizenship?
  • Can he eliminate all “DEI” programs within the federal government?
  • Can he unilaterally form the Department of Government Efficiency and, if so, what powers could it have?
  • What about Panama, Greenland, and Canada?

In this presentation, Prof. Chan will discuss how the U.S. constitution had been crafted in order to prevent the concentration of power (that the Trump administration is now attempting to wield), and how those constraints can fail.

ABOUT LELAND CHAN
Leland Chan is currently an adjunct professor of law at Golden Gate University. He is a retired General Counsel of the California Bankers Association. He holds a Juris Doctor (JD) degree from the University of California at Berkeley.

03/02/2025 Are There Constitutional Constraints Against President Trump’s Actions? – Leland Chan from Humanist Community-SiliconValley on Vimeo.

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On the first and third Sunday of the month, such as March 2nd, you can attend our forum in person with fellow humanists at the Mountain View Senior Center, 266 Escuela Ave., Mountain View, CA 94040. Lunch will be served after the forum. We request a $10 donation for lunch.

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The Quest to Understand Consciousness

Antonio Damasio

11 a.m., February 23, 2025

Join us this Sunday, either in person or online, as we watch and discuss the 18-minute TED talk from March 2011, The Quest to Understand Consciousness by Antonio Damasio.

Every morning we wake up and regain consciousness, but what exactly is it that we regain? Neuroscientist Antonio Damasio uses this simple question to give us a glimpse into how our brains create our sense of self.

Antonio Damasio’s research in neuroscience has shown that emotions play a central role in social cognition and decision-making. His work has had a major influence on current understanding of the neural systems, which underlie memory, language, consciousness.

Neuroscientist, Antonio Damasio, is the author of Self Comes to Mind: Constructing the Conscious Brain, which was adapted into a musical composition performed by Yo-Yo Ma at the American Museum of Natural History.

You can preview this talk at:
https://www.ted.com/talks/antonio_damasio_the_quest_to_understand_consciousness

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